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Dealing with Change

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Dealing with Change

HOW DO YOU ADAPT TO CHANGE? Can we ever really insulate ourselves from unwanted changes in our lives or those we love? If you are a religious person, how does your faith help you cope?

A deeper question for the Saturday Salon hat may deal with how our belief systems affect our feelings and actions, or if they reach that far? When faced with tragedy, does your religion truly comfort you or cause you to take certain actions over others?

We know what our various religions say we SHOULD think, but do we? Buddhists are supposed to take comfort in knowing everything is temporary.  Reality itself is a matter of perception, constantly changing and rearranging. If we truly accept that, change of any kind will not phase us, even death, pain or illness. Christians are supposed to take comfort in prayer, asking God to intervene on their behalf, or at the very least, they accept horrible events such as a child’s death, because things are supposed to be better in the next life – the balance sheet will be reconciled and all will be well.

What do you believe, and how deeply do you believe it? Do you believe strongly enough to truly be comforted during times of unwanted change?

Host a Saturday Salon!

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Host a Saturday Salon!
Tired of politics as usual? Take a look in the mirror. Do you only hang out with people who agree with you? Who have the same political opinions? Who go to the same church?Break out of your rut – host a Saturday Salon! They’re easy, fun, popular, and FREE! Check out the FAQs page for a quick tutorial.There’s never been a greater need or a better time to stop complaining. Give up your apathy – it’s not all THEIR fault, it’s all of our faults for not talking with each other and trying to understand why THEY think the way they do.

We do have common ground. Unless and until we sit down together and find it, we will continue to have the problems we do in our homes, neighborhoods, workplaces, and nations.

New Year’s Resolutions

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New Year’s Resolutions

DO YOU MAKE NEW YEAR’S RESOLUTIONS? Set goals? Write mission statements? Create visualization boards? What works for you? I like the Steven Covey Roles & Goals time and resource management approach, but I’ve also cut pics from magazines and glued them onto poster board for inspiration. I think it reflects my dual nature: linear and logical mixed with messy creativity and a dash of Whatever!

Getting Old?

Posted by on 4:05 am in Health, Relationships, Saturday Salon Community, Spirituality/Religion, Topic Questions | 0 comments

Getting Old?

AREN’T WE ALL, but as they say, it beats the alternative. If we’re lucky, all our parts will wear out at the same time, and we’ll die peacefully in our sleep somewhere in our 90s. I know of no one who has accomplished this feat, however, so I’ve been thinking lately about what will give our lives meaning when we can no longer live, work, and play as we once did.

Old age creeps up on most of us. First, we give up jogging or dancing because of our knees. Then, we start forgetting where we put our car keys. Friends our age have heart attacks. Even the women. Our parents die. But first, they usually go through an illness-often cancer. Some beat it for a time, but eventually, it seems to get everyone in the end. And that’s not even listing the mental and emotional illnesses people suffer.

Not a very cheerful smattering of thoughts.

So, what are our options? Do we have examples of people whose lives continue to have meaning, who continue to have joy even when they are in physical pain, have lost mobility, or are hooked up to machines?

SATURDAY SALON QUESTION: How are you preparing yourself for old age, or a catastrophic accident that leaves you suddenly, severely limited, such as the military vets who lose limbs? What will you do, or are you doing now, to have meaning in your life? To feel joy? To serve others?

What makes life meaningful?


Take Action

Posted by on 2:13 am in Political, Saturday Salon Community, Topic Questions | 0 comments

Take Action

WHAT ARE YOU DOING about whatever it is you think is wrong with the world? Is it enough to simply express outrage at the state of _________ (fill in the blank), or are you obligated to do something about it?

It seems we have three choices.

Let’s say political corruption or partisan divide and deadlock is your pet peeve. You hate it, you call your spouse over to see the latest abomination on the news, and your blood pressure goes up every time you see CNN or FOX News. But…what do you do next? You can…

1) stew in your juices, and do nothing but remain upset 24/7.

2) become preppers and move to a compound in Idaho with multiple automatic weapons.

3) think about what you want and how it could be achieved, either by you individually, or by finding or creating a group you could actively work with to achieve the changes you want to see. Do some research. Think outside the box. Believe change is possible. Live a meaningful life.

I’m for option 3.

Obama’s Immigration Move

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Obama’s Immigration Move

WHAT DOES THE LATINO COMMUNITY THINK ABOUT OBAMA’S executive action last night? Day late and a dollar short, or is he doing the best he can with Republicans blocking his every move? And why do I have a picture of Regan here?  Anyone remember 1986?

What legislation should Congress write and pass? What are the real issues and what would solve this problem?

Honoring Veteran Tomas Young

Posted by on 4:06 pm in Political, Saturday Salon Community, Spirituality/Religion, Topic Questions | 0 comments

Honoring Veteran Tomas Young

Iraq war veteran Tomas Young just died. Before he died, he made this video. Show it at your next Saturday Salon to get right to the heart of why we go to war, how to honor veterans without glorifying war, and how to use our voice and vote to prevent all the useless and horrific damage war inflicts.

Possible Talking Stick Starters:

  1. Can you be a patriot and still be opposed to war or to some wars?
  2. What kind of foreign policy would best prevent war?
  3. What obligations do we have to other nations? Can we be isolationists?
  4. Do you have any influence over our nation’s involvement in wars?
  5. Is peace possible, or do you think WW III  is inevitable?
  6. Are your political beliefs influenced by your religious  beliefs? In what way?

Let’s start talking with each other about things that really matter.

Tomas Young’s last video


The Lunch Date

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The Lunch Date

WATCH THIS 10-minute FILM at your next Saturday Salon instead of pulling a question from the hat. Then ask the simple question “What was this film about?”  You will be so surprised at the variety of answers you will get! Great way to learn something about yourself and others. Perception is everything! Things are not as obvious as we think they are.

“The Lunch Date”




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“WE’RE NOT MEANT TO SAVE THE WORLD…we’re meant to leave it,” says Dr. Brand in Interstellar, “Nothing in this solar system can save us.”

What do you think? Is it too late to save our world, or should we start building space ships?

These are not esoteric questions – we’re making decisions every day that shout our answers, whether we recognize them as our own or not. We can ask ourselves:

Do we vote? Do we do anything to help anyone or anything outside our own immediate circle of family and friends? Are we doing anything to reverse or at least stop the damage to our planet? Do we really have any hope at all that world peace is achievable? Are we heading for the hills with guns, ammo and canned food?

Obama Bad?

Posted by on 4:09 pm in Political, Saturday Salon Community | 0 comments

“Obama bad.” That’s what former Senator, John B. Breaux,  claims most Senate candidates feel about President Obama. AND HE’S A DEMOCRAT! Should this be a surprise? I say the higher we put someone on a pedestal, the more violently we tear them off that high perch.

It’s predictable.

Instead of doing the hard work it takes to be an informed electorate, we lazily assume. Until we start seeing everyone as they are, and not as we wish them to be, or assume we know who they are because they’re on the other side of the aisle, we’ll keep getting what we’re getting.

And it’s not pretty. I still vote. I haven’t given up, but it’s frustrating to watch people become apathetic because they view politics as something so largely out of their control.